The other day when we went to see my parents, my hubby, our cutie pie baby N I, Just like many other times I  again felt so blessed, you know those special moments when you feel pure pure gratitude, you feel so blessed that you just can’t thank Allah enough  for so many blessings! yeah that was one of those moments :-)  I just felt like saying few words for “Men in my life” – Beautiful creations N wonderful relations, May Allah bless them beyond their expectations  :-D Insha-Allah <3

My Father;

So very precious so dear you are to me
To you, Your cute little girl I’ll always be!
No matter what I’ll ever go through,
I have believe always I can count on you!

My Brothers;

I look at you & I smile with whole heart
My strength & my life’s a very important part
Always for your happiness & safety I pray
Blooming & smiling may you always stay!

My Husband;

My companion, how very beloved you are
In all grey nights, you’re that shining star
We share  unique a bond, so pure so strong
After Allah & Rasool [pbuh], to you my loyalty belong!

My Son;

With your heart beats my heart
You touched my soul from the very start
May you Succeed in  Deen-o-Duniyaa
For you I’ll be there, So will my Du’a; Insha-Allah
More than anything; My dear son I Love YOU<3

Beware of the one who talks to you in “the name of love”

who is promising you marriage but he wants to « know you better »  through chat before, who wants to see your pic, or wants to go out with you to “have a better idea” of “his future wife” before taking the first step and talk to your father…

If he was really good and righteous, he would suggest immediately to come to your house to ask your wali/father for your hand in marriage . There is an Arabic proverb talking about this kind of men the one who “enters house from window and not from the door of the house”

and Allah says in Qur’an :” So enter houses through their proper doors, and fear Allah that you may be successful.”

A faithful Muslim man would choose to make what is right and ask the father for the hand of his daughter and not to make a haraam relationship with her behind his back! In fact, dating is haraam in Islam and the engagement period is made so that the couple know one another better according to Sunnah in the presence of mahram of course.

  Be careful of a man who talks to you in “the name of religion”

Who wants to be in touch with you so you can help him to become “better Muslim” who wants to have chat with you so that he can take advantage of your Islamic knowledge or who wants to help you in religious matters! Never trust this kind of men too, because the one who wants to increase his Islamic knowledge, he would’ve sought the help of other men not women!!  And if he wants to help others in religious matters then he had to help brothers not sisters! If he was pious, he would know that Allah forbade this kind of relationship no matter what  because if a man and woman are alone in khalwah [even on chat] then shaytan will be the third of them even if they both have “innocent and good” intentions!

I read this & then shared it on my Facebook page, today when I was talking about this issue with a girl & thoughts about it, I realized the lack of awareness about this unfortunate case around in our Muslim community, loads of our sisters are victims of this thing, this misunderstanding & trap, not to mention our muslim brothers being trapped by “lady wolves”.  It’s sad that it’s happening so therefore it’s our duty to spread the awareness so that our fellow sisters/brothers can keep them safe from this “Fitnah” ! Insha-Allah!

Jazak-Allah khair to the one who wrote this reminder!

Aithe Bandeaya Parona Ae Tu Aaya, Paroneya Nu Jaan Painda Ae!

 Aithe bandeya parona ae tuu aaya, Paroneya nu jaana painda ae
Aithe Kisse wi nahin pakka dera laaya, Paroneya nu jaana painda ae

O Kalla aaya duniyaa te kalle jaana kalleyaa
Akhaan meet ke tu turr jaana challeya
Tere AmlaaN ne O tere amlaaN ne rehna ae bakaaya
Tere amlaan ne rehna ae bakaaya, paroneya nu jaana painda ae!

Tera kujh wi nahin duniya te pyaareya
Tera kujh wi nahin duniya te pyaareya
Dass kedi gaallon mall aithe tu maareya
Dass kedi gaallon mall aithe tu maareya
Kakh mitti de baaweya ghour karke
Kakh mitti de baaweya ghour karke
Kedi jagah te tera khameer jaana
Jinnoon awein ee shingaar da phire murakh
Rall Khaak wich tera sareer jaana
Authe hona kisse da lehaaz niyoon
Authe baadsha authe faqeer jaana
Khaali hath tu aaya si jag andar
Khaali hath tu aithoon akheer jaana
Akhir marna ae, mout ne chaddna nahin
Akhir marna ae, mout ne chaddna nahin
Yaara kisse layyi marre te taan jaana
Peed apni nu peed samajhna ae
Peed kisse di jharein te taan jaana
Tera kalle da tarna bahaaduri nahin
Leke dubbe nu tarrein te taan jaana
Phalleyaan na karda har koi phalla yaara
Phalla bure naal karein te taan jaana
Tera kujh wi nahin duniya te pyaareya
Dass kedi galloon mall aithe tu maareya
Tennu kisse wi ni ae samjhaaya?
Proneyaa nu jaana painda ae!

 Palle ban lawin tu meri ais gall nu
Palle ban lawin tu meri ais gall nu
Aithe hona naheeyo bandeya tu kal nu
Aithe hona naheeyo bandeya tu kal nu
Kedi shohi te karein wadd wadd gallan
Kedi shohi te karein wadd wadd gallan
Hona mitti naal mitti auqaat teri
Mitha bool, mitha bol zubaan-cho palla howe
Shahid kal na howe mulaqaat teri
Awein wadd wadera te Khaan ban na
Ainna gallaN naal nahinyyon najaat teri
Authe amlaan de soude hayn yaad rakhin
Authe poochni nahin kisse zaat teri
Palle ban lawin tu meri ais gall nu
Palle ban lawin tu meri ais gall nu
Aithe hona naheeyo bandeya tu kal nu
Aithe hona naheeyo bandeya tu kal nu
Tera dissna nahin kidre wi saaya
Paroneyaa nu jaana painda ae

 Change duniya te amal kamaawin tu
Awein bandeya na fer pachtaawin tu
Authe kam auna jo tu kamaaya
Paroneyaa nu jaana painda ae

 Likhyaa lekhaaN azal tu jo saade
Auhoi tu lena auhoi main lena
Likheyaa lekhaaN azal tu jo saade
Auhoi tu lena auhoi main lena
Teriyaan meriyaan aakdaan kais khaate
Tuwi teh jaana main wi teh jaana
Tuwi teh jaana main wi teh jaana
Buqall maar ke chukkna jaddoN saaiyaan
Na kujh tu kehna na kujh main kehna
Fer tera mera, tera mera reh gaya ki chaghda
Na aithe tu rehna na aithe main rehna
Aithe Kisse ni wi nahin pakka dhera laaya
Paroneyaa nu jaana painda ae!