Daily Archives: 31/05/2009

Illness and our emotions

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31 May 2009

After seeing my mum in hospital the past few days i have seen one big difference in the way each of us is handling the situation. Apart from few of us “guys” who love our mums there are guys who don’t care that much.

My little sister who is 12 years old, prefers to spend time with mum helping her while even sleeping in a bed next to her in hospital rather than playing with her little cousins.

On the contrary some people would spend their whole week loafing around rather than spending even more than 10 minutes with their mum or asking about her health. This happens a lot these days.

I personally feel that my whole world revolves around my mother. Apart from the fact that she has given me so many reasons to love her to bits and take care of her I can’t think of one reason that would make me NOT long to see her everyday in the hospital and not pray that I wish she gets well.

I wrote something for mum some time back.. Dear Mum .. this one is for you

When someone is ill in your family only then you will realize their true value in your life, not only that, but also a way to find out how much others care about you is when you yourself fall ill. They say a person who gets very ill is also emotionally touchy, and that is very much true.

Give as much time as you can to those who are ill so atleast you fill that gap that is being put in them due to the medication.

God bless everyone and may God give everyone the understanding of how to treat those that are ill.. ameen

Discussions that never end..

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31 May 2009

I have come to a conclusion that millions have already reached :D So yes am a bit late when it comes to concluding things since I am one of those who keeps on talking about an issue until it’s solved or until one reaches a conclusion or some sort of answer or solution.

So yes back to the topic. I feel that the discussion type that NEVER ends is a discussion about religion. And difficult is the discussion that is about the same religion with different sects.

Everyone feels they are correct, no one wants to be told they are wrong. And reason why I feel that “Same religion – different sect” discussions never end is because I joined a few and after hundreds of replies to the topic, we are still on the same spot we started.

So an advice to all you guys. Discuss other things other than religion. Because not all of us are scholars or hold the authority within our religious belief system. Talk about your hobbies, or about things that are around you, relations and so on are good things to talk about as well on various discussion forums and blogs.

Only discuss religion when you REALLY feel it’s worth your time :)

Concept of being faithful

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31 May 2009

Love Light Pictures, Images and PhotosThere are lots of things one can do or say to tell the one they love about them being faithful to them. But what is being faithful? Is it being with them forever and ever or respecting and understanding their love so deep that you move onto some of the toughest decisions of your life. Well it depends on the relation itself. Some relations demand lots of questioning and some relations are just soul to soul, that one can just close their eyes and be with them without them being right next to you.

But since topic is about being faithful.. what is in your view being faithful to your loved ones? Is it when you give your 100% to keep yourself devoted to them, or is it giving into their soul deep promises..?