Monthly Archives: October 2009

I figured out what most know already. The power of silent treatment that is. Life brings to us some amazing experiences which we just have to go through. At the same time we end up in a rut to be right sometimes which makes us go on without realizing that our words are not valued at all.

There are a few times when we have to be quiet for our own peace of mind. And that peace of mind won’t be our destiny if we keep on explaining ourself. I felt that during the past few years the only time i really became senselessly furious is when those near me are put on the humiliating spot where their character is being messed with.

I got some great advice from a few friends that those that have absolutely nothing worth saying have no need to be wasted time on. I followed it since the past few years and now am content that i am giving those real people in my daily life the time they deserve.

I am enjoying the silent treatment which in return is making me stronger.

I wonder if life was just a piece of pie we would all be happy that its so easy and there is nothing to worry about. But sadly or i must luckily thats not the case it just shouldnt be easy and why would it?

Going into a life that is too easy gives us absolutely nothing to value, fight for or aim for. An easy life no matter who is living it makes one weak and totally non social as i feel personally that hardships in life make us what we are, humanbeings. Humans that can with the strength God has given us go through his tests without complaining.

So when praying do ask God to give u a challenge because life’s spice is exactly that… A tough rollercoaster ride.

There are lots of reasons why one has to be positive no matter what. Here are few of them:-

• People like positive people.. no one likes a sourface :D
• People would love to be like you.. what better way to live this life than be an example :)
• You yourself will love your innerself because positivity is what makes the world go around
• Because being negative drains you of all energy that could have been used elsewhere
• When you are positive then your wish to be RIGHT will be replaced by the wish to be PEACEFUL and let someone else mess their mind to be RIGHT :D
• You will focus on some amazing things about people rather than negative things about them
• And you will waste less time on silly things

Do add yours :)