Daily Archives: 23/12/2009

“Marriage is not a love affair. A love affair is a totally different thing. A marriage is a commitment to that which you are. That person is literally your other half. And you and the other are one. A love affair isn’t that. That is a relationship of pleasure, and when it gets to be unpleasurable , it’s off. But a marriage is a life commitment, and a life commitment means the prime concern of your life. If marriage is not the prime concern, you are not married.” 
-Joseph Campbell

So true, when married realizing the commitment this is how it should be or I should say this is the right way N this is how it Must be – Prime concern. Being committed in such a strong relation should be taken as a commitment. A relationship that you can’t put a name on might be N look very strong, but a relation you actually can give a name to is something totally different. When anyone commit themself in marriage with their free will, then it’s a real shame to even consider walking out, then they need to respect their decision, after all their commitment only tells how they take commitments in life. A marriage of love N an affair of love is totally two different things, the first one got the strongest foundation while the second one is like a candle in the storm which seem to have strong flame hitting left N right but can blow off N become a cold ash anytime. As they say: If it’s worth hiding, it’s not worth having :-)