Monthly Archives: March 2010

Most couples have not had hundreds of arguments; they’ve had the same argument hundreds of times.
- Gay Hendriks

This one is very classic, N quite easy to understand but what if we twist this one a bit too :-P thing here is that when we see couples having arguments N time where they wish they could just fly far far away from everythin, because they can’t seem to agree with their partner [agee to disagree lacking issue know hehe] . Thinkin of such couples N Reading this quote makes me think how true it is, sadly when some issue arise any couple don’t pay attention to solve real issue, N this way they find a conclusion but they miss the real issue, N when next time somethin new happens, it doubles because there was already some unsorted matter there -  The world or even the two in a relationship would say that gosh they always fightin always arguing, while the truth is that they are not completely ”done” with the one argument that started ages back. Funny but true! this does happen, N when we think about it,  really think about it, this would make more N more sense. So I guess couples should make sure all the cards are on the table N everythin is said N heard before they consider somethin [argument/issue/problem] solved N move on.

The bitterest tears shed over graves
are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.
- Harriet Beecher Stowe

Sad but so very well said hmmm :-) How many times have we seen people cry their eyes out on their beloveds grave? many times. Why they do that is somewhat so obvious, they miss them N can’t bear the thought of not being able to see them anymore N not being able to share their life with them, not having them around, the thought is killing. But reading this quote I discovered one more thing, tears roll down because there is so much in heart left unsaid, so much that should have been done, so much that’s said should not have been said. the tears are for Time, that has been taken for granted. So basically people cry out their regrets, their embarrassments, their anger, N their pain. but, for what use? None!  I wonder will there ever be sometime when we will actually realize to appreciate our loved ones? or are we gonna continue taking people close to our hearts for granted N live in a fantasy land of believing they always gonna stay with us or vice versa? makes me sad, N I pray that people open up their eyes before their beloved close theirs. .to infinity. God give patience to everyone who has lost anyone dear N they learn something from it.