Monthly Archives: April 2010

There are lots of families where the eldest bro is usually taken into consideration whenever an issue comes up or whenever something is to be sorted out. Sadly that’s not the case in all families.

How do you see the situation when the eldest bro is not even given the position or respect as the eldest bro not only from a father who knows that after him only the eldest son will manage the whole family. And has anyone of you had that experience.. do share :)

I personally have never been a fan of violence in any form although I wouldn’t for a single second say that if my family is God forbid wiped out by some sick guy I wouldn’t turn into someone who would seek revenge, I love my family and there is nothing that comes before them.

So when I read things where a guy in some part of the world, seeks revenge where his family has been totally wiped out and he has nothing to live for I don’t feel sorry for his actions.

Firstly, a person who is connected with a blood relation to anyone, you just can’t expect to know their pain unless you have gone through it yourself. So I would hardly agree with anyone who says if someone shoots their father and mother in front of them that they would say “It’s cool.. I don’t mind”

Be realistic, don’t be a “Budha” and reply what you would have done if some “enemy state” goes so far as to finish your family off..?

I have often done radio shows about people who tend to act very nice nice from outside and from inside they would probably never want your best in the first place. We got few of those in our family, they act as if they love you the most and behind the back they would be like “oh he doing this well must be something behind it” etc etc

I mean isn’t there any other thing people can do apart from feeling “bad” for other people doing well in some part of their life. I am someone who is very much down to earth in all possible ways, helps everyone when needed, and often I get good compliments but despite the helpful nature I would often get few nuts whom I have helped taking the wrong end of the stick and try to play cute and at the same time very wierd.

Family issues usually escelate when I face to face say to the person to “chill” since this is not the way I would like to have things revolving around my personal life, but what about you guys?

How do you deal with it when someone butts into your personal life and wants to all the nitty gritty details?