Monthly Archives: June 2010

I was just listening to my hubby Ka show at crazefm N the topic was what to do with guys that “try” to force someone into marriage or vice versa. Guys/Girls that are stubborn or stupid enough that they don’t give up or understand that someone is not interested, they are blind N can’t see the fact that the other person have no place for them in their life. Still they go on N say that they are gonna marry them, N that’s it.

They might try emotional or any sort of manipulation, Force, Blackmailing,  N God knows what they cook in their mind to just get that girl/guy to marry them N be with them. I feel it’s the limit of stupidity! Where do they place their self-respect when they do such? God mercy N frankly I feel sorry for them. Because  I think not being able to have this much control in own life,  then they must really be struggling with  some serious mental disease.

It’s very simple, when someone reject say NO to your proposal in whatsoever way means they are not interested, it’s just to accept it N if they really “care” they should respect it - nothing to discuss. One should not humiliate love in such a disgusting way calling it love, N at the same time give damn in what the other person sayin. Force N Love got nothin in common, N one can never Force anyone in any possible way to love them N think that it will work out very well. Things don’t work like that :-)

A recent news in the local newspaper shook lots of people when Liv Løberg said that she had cheated on her CV, well actually it wasn’t her who said she did, the newspaper “tracked” it. Otherwise she would still be sipping coffee in her posh office while lots of other talented individuals are still struggling to get a job because their names are too “Muslim” or God knows what.

What urges a person to go beyond that such level that they feel that they are worth something that they are not. I mean is there something in their head or is it totally empty that makes them go “Okie let’s see how we can take someone else’s job and then enjoy it”

What are your views on cheating on a cv, or let alone anything that’s related to you getting a job which you know you don’t deserve? What kind of a penalty should such people get?

I have often noticed people going on stage and doing the same thing all over again not realizing that sometimes just tiny things to their way of presenting themselves can give an amazing outcome.  I am in the process of learning a lot although I have been a radio presenter for over 10 years now. So remember, you will NEVER be perfect unless you leave lots of room in your mind to grow. Ok on to the tiny mistakes.

1. Not knowing your subject
   This is NOT acceptable :) You wouldn’t want to hear about how planes fly from a person who hasn’t read anything about planes, would you?
2. Lack of passion
   This is the “battery” that without any speech would be totally dead
3. Slow as a snail
   Remember to note down your speech in keywords, do not write the whole 20 pages. Audience will sleep :)
4. Know your audience
   This is my favorite, always try to strike a conversation to the audience on the day of your speech. This will make it easier for you and often clears the air a bit.
5. Failing to breath
   Well if you don’t breath, you surely will die but your speech will be long dead before that. So be careful and remember to breath properly.

Any more tips you got? Do share :)