Monthly Archives: August 2010

This thought just crossed my mind, while I was sitting N wondering about stuff happening here N there, in our lives as well as what’s happening around the world. When you tell someone something nice [I say nice becasue usuly you hear it when you tell N hear somethin islamic]  Have heard this thing so much: “Woh to theek hai, Lekin . . . .” N then they complete the sentence with whatsoever the talk is about. Let me add some examples so we know what I’m talking about;

Aapko maloom hai ke Allah ko Jhooth napasand hai, phir bhi? Answer: woh to theek hai, Lekin. .  .Agar hum unhe sacch bata dete to woh karz na dete.
Time ho gaya hai aur Aapko pata hai ke Namaz bagair kisi bouhat hi  khaas majboori ke qaza nahin ki ja sakti? Answer:  woh to theek hai, lekin. . main makeup sath nahin laayi, wodu kaise karoon? Ya phir:  woh to theek hai, lekin. . train miss ho jayegi.
Is tarha ke lovy dovy gaane sunna aur music haraam hai, agle jahan saza milegi, aap jante bhi ho phir bhi sun rahe hain? Answer: Woh to theek hai, Lekin. . .aise to shaadi mein maza nahin ata na, apni hi awazon ka shor hoga.
Bina shaadi ke muhabbat ka yeh riwaaj zina hai, aur iski bouhat pakad hogi upar, phir aap log is mein kyon trapped ho? Answer: Woh to theek hai, lekin. . . “Humari/Meri” muhabbat sacchi hai.
Yeh tight jeans aur istarha ke Libaas ki Islam Ijazat nahin deta hai, why don’t you wear something else, There is so much nice to wear, why don’t you dress bit modest  in islamicly meanings] ? Answer: Woh to theek hai, Lekin. . . Fashion ke  saath chalna pardta hai, warna log ghoor ghoor ke dekhte hain. I don’t want to look different.
Roze rakhna har Baligh Muslim pe farz hai, phir aap roze kyoon nahin rakhte? Answer: Woh to theek hai, lekin. . . Mujhe pyaas lag jaati hai na, Itna lamba roza hota hai.
Apne Parents ko uff tak karne ka hukam nahin hai, tum itna daant kar kaise bol sakte ho, Allah se darna chahiye!! Answe: Woh to theek hai, lekin. . . Woh baat hi aisi karte hain, gussa aa jata hai, they don’t understand hmmm.
etc etc etc etc etc etc etc. . . loads N loads of these “Woh to theek hai, Lekin. . . ” If you look around you’ll see yourself how awfully this is happening. :-|

I wonder: achiving something by lying, is it worth it? Is it really worth it, Yahan jhoot bole bina karz nahin milega, Lekin Allah ki narazgi qubool hai, uski nafarmani karke kya jannat milegi?
Makeup keliye namaz qaza kar dena, Allah chahe to with makeup you’ll look as bad as without it. Train nikal jaayegi huh? Jannat haath se nikal jaayegi, kya yeh sauda akalmandi ka hai? Shaadiyon pe ya waise hi gaane music sunna ke apni awazon ka shor hota hai, kya us jahan apni Cheekh o pukaar sun seh paoge, jab saza di jayegi? Jab shadi bina Muhabbat ka koi tasawur hi nahin hai, aur Allah ne aise amal se mana kiya hai, to phir sacchi jhooti kya hai, Allah jab poochega ke jab mana kiya hua tha yeh to kyoon yeh amal kiya, to kya jawab hoga? Ke neeyat saaf thi? Lekin naik neeyat bina naik amal to koi mautbir nahin hoti hai, amaal to neeyat ke ainadaar nahin hote? Allah ke samne sharminda hone ki taqt hai kya?  You talk about Fashion, N what people will think of you, what about what Allah Almighty will think of you?  You don’t owe this world anything, but you owe your life to Allah. You don’t wanna “look”  different ya, will you be able to bear standing all alone infront of the gate of Jahannum, what then? Wouldn’t eveyone look at how different you look then? You say your parents makes you angry, that they don’t understand you N your opinion? Are you kidding me, they understood your “Ishaare” when you were all helpless N couldn’t even say a word, is that all forgotten? Are you so blind?  N don’t you forget: as you sow, so shall you reap. Be nice to your parents so that your kids will be good to you!!!

Sometimes I feel ashamed, are we really that weak? We call ourself proud muslims, N so many time, soo so many time we use this thing: Woh to theek hai, lekin. . . when someone tell us something Islamic -  I mean how shameful is this? Where are our priorities?!  we’re talking about something that ALLAH has orderd us, N still we dare to say this? Allah mercy!!! This is what we call: commiting sins “knowingly/ willingly” – Astagfirullah! Allah forgive us all, N make us true Muslims, not only by names hmm  but with actionswith Naik Amaal, May he guide us on the right path, the path that leads us to Allah’s raza N his Jannat, N protect us from hellfire N  Jahanum. [Ameen-sum-Ameen] :-| (more…)

I read this in a book I’m readin by Wasif Ali Wasif, Liked it N so therefore saving N sharing it here at our space :-)

*Mere Baad Kya Hoga ______ Tujhse Pehle Kya Tha?

*Main Isko Nahin Manta _______ Tujhe Koan Maanta Hai?

*Main ILam Tak Pohanch Gaya ______ Jahalat Se Kab Juda Hue Ho?

*Main Sabko Fatah Kar LoonGa ____ Fatah Karne Ki Khwahish Ko Hi Fatah Kar Lo?

*Main Humesha Rahoonga ___ KisKe Liye? ____ Tum Jiske Liye Bhi Rahoge, Woh Humesha Nahin Reh SakeGa.

*Main Kamiyaabi Ka Raaz Jaanta Hoon _____ TumSe Pehle Jo Yeh Raaz Paa Gaye the Woh Kahan Gaye?

Humara Imaan Hai N I Have always believed that everything is “Faani”  – “Baaki” Agar kuch hai to woh hai sirf Allah ki Zaat! Apni Tehleeq Ya Apne Anjaam ka agar hum sochein to Yakeenan hum Kuch bhi nahin! Kehte hain na:  Kisi cheez ko chota samjhne ke liye ya to use Door se dekha jaye, Ya Gharoor se, tabhi choti lagti hai! Kya hum is kabil hain ke Gharoor kar sakein? my answer is NO! What’s yours, think about it hmm :-)

This rose is Another one of my “clicks” :-)
Another one of Allah’s  beautiful creation!

I’ve been thinking about this for some time now, but today I saw a video in my hubby’s cell phone, I now watched rest of the lecture on youtube for a while ago,  that gave me some more to think about as well as that scared me N made me ask Allah for forgiveness with tears in my eyes, as you never know what of your act makes you every good deed N ibadaat go nowhere but in trash, waste of life hmmmm. What have we women  gained N what have we lost in life – How bad luck, how Unfortunate, how very sad.

Not taking Allah’s order seriously is indeed the Ghaate ka sauda, N very soon we shall get the results, very very soon.  Today’s majority of women are  “in love” with men somehow, they all the time keep them in mind, listen to songs while closing eyes they think about them , leading a relationships without being married not to mention cheating on their spouse, Happy N content forgetting that the one they should fear, the one N only ALLAH  knows it all N is watching their every  act, the good ones N the shameful ones.  From a very young age unfortunately watching Dramas N movies makes innocent mind think that “Love”  N “Loving” [the kind of Love that is common these days] someone is must, which is NOT – it is Haram! but, the society around N wrong use of television/Internet makes naive brain think differently, who to blame? Maybe Parents? hmm

Though  Alhamdulillah there are women in this world that practise  Parda N are following Allah’s order, N maybe it’s because of those women, One cannot say that Muslim women are nowhere, they are dead, gone! But sadly, Looking around maybe we find 1 of billion  a Muslimah women, truly Muslim women with complete Parda, Parda the way it deserve to be!

Looking at Namehrum is eye Ka Zina , Talking to them is Zubaan Ka Zina, Listening to them is ears Ka Zina, Writing lovy dovy for Nemehrum is Hand ka Zina,  having their love in heart N dreaming of them, is heart ka Zina, Walking to see the somewhere is Kadam ka Zinda etc etc. Not only is this all be-pardagi, this is beghairti N a Momina women would not think of doing such things.

I sow these videos N not sharing them on my space I feel would be very unfair N not right, Following Allah’s N Hadees way is something every Muslim MUST do to protect oneself from  hellfire N Allah Ka Azaab. My duty is to share what I learned N know, rest is between Allah N the women out there! Allah the most merciful forgive us N give us the ability to follow his Order N give us Hidaiyat to be the real Momina, may we all follow Islam completely instead of picking up what suits us N what we like. [Ameen-sum-Ameen]

N nope, none of  this is extreme, not for a Muslimah, this is our beautiful Islam that gave respect to women!