Monthly Archives: August 2011

Thank you, Mom!

. . . That You while I was in your womb were so full of patience! You didn’t do anything that could cause me pain or not be good for me, You ate things you probably wouldn’t have eaten if I was not to be born, You gave up your favorite food not to hurt me, You gave up so much of your activities to get rest so that I would be healthy, You went to sleep even if you wanted to stay awake, You woke up early in the morning to eat breakfast even if  You wished to sleep bit longer, You walked so carefully when you were used to walk fast, You used  vitamins tabs only for me though you didn’t like taking tabs, Nine long  months you  walked around with me inside your womb, without complaining that it’s uncomfortable, painful or that you’re looking weird [in a v v beautiful way]. .

. . . . .Then you went through so much pain to bring me into this world, it was a tough time, a matter of live N death, you couldn’t breath properly but your heart was with me N wondering how am doing, you didn’t care for your life even – N when I was born you took me close to you so that I could get some warmth N you fed me right away although you were so tired being through so much. Then your new journey new challenge started when you had to take care of me 24/7, changing my diapers, feeding, bathing, making sure am alright, you had so many sleepless nights so that I could sleep peacefully, I was always your first priority, even the slightest sign from me that am not comfortable  or hurting you would go beyond your strength to make sure am okie – my smile made you smile N tears in my eyes made you cry it would tear you apart totally. . . . .

Thank you, Dear Ammi Jaan! I love you <3

. . . . .The other day when I was at my parents place, me N my Bhabhi were talking about how life changes after having babies, how much more we appriciate everything our mothers did for us, N how once when you yourself become a mother can truly tell what a speial creation mothers are N how much we actually love them. Our  little baby boy is now two months N nine days old, this is how I feel, all that I wrote above is from my own experience, though my mother must have gone through so much more for me am sure :-) A thank you can never justify, or ever be enough, never – but, still sometimes we need to show them, thank our mothers by saying these two words, by helping them, giving them time, respecting N loving them beyond anything! My all love N respect for my mom <3

Yes, two months ago I became a father and I must say life did change quite a lot. First of all the whole thing about being more responsible as to making sure things are ok with the baby, in the sense of health and knowing that the whole responsibility of the kids upbringing is on you and the mother. Amazing feeling actually.

One really comes to terms of the reality of life. Those who have children know that very well, I am sure.

I hope and pray that we both get a long healthy life in which we can lovingly bring the child up as a wonderful human being, ameen.

Tera zindagi mein akar, Iss ko badal yun jaana
Rona aur phir ro kar, Masoomiat se muskurana

Kya soch tum ho paate, ke humare liye tum kya ho
Ek anmol se tohfe ho tum, hum dono ki  tum jaan ho

Rab se yehi dua hei, tumhe acha musalmaan banaye
Koi gham tumhare raste pe, kabhi bhi na aane paaye