«The wolves of the net»

Beware of the one who talks to you in “the name of love”

who is promising you marriage but he wants to « know you better »  through chat before, who wants to see your pic, or wants to go out with you to “have a better idea” of “his future wife” before taking the first step and talk to your father…

If he was really good and righteous, he would suggest immediately to come to your house to ask your wali/father for your hand in marriage . There is an Arabic proverb talking about this kind of men the one who “enters house from window and not from the door of the house”

and Allah says in Qur’an :” So enter houses through their proper doors, and fear Allah that you may be successful.”

A faithful Muslim man would choose to make what is right and ask the father for the hand of his daughter and not to make a haraam relationship with her behind his back! In fact, dating is haraam in Islam and the engagement period is made so that the couple know one another better according to Sunnah in the presence of mahram of course.

  Be careful of a man who talks to you in “the name of religion”

Who wants to be in touch with you so you can help him to become “better Muslim” who wants to have chat with you so that he can take advantage of your Islamic knowledge or who wants to help you in religious matters! Never trust this kind of men too, because the one who wants to increase his Islamic knowledge, he would’ve sought the help of other men not women!!  And if he wants to help others in religious matters then he had to help brothers not sisters! If he was pious, he would know that Allah forbade this kind of relationship no matter what  because if a man and woman are alone in khalwah [even on chat] then shaytan will be the third of them even if they both have “innocent and good” intentions!

I read this & then shared it on my Facebook page, today when I was talking about this issue with a girl & thoughts about it, I realized the lack of awareness about this unfortunate case around in our Muslim community, loads of our sisters are victims of this thing, this misunderstanding & trap, not to mention our muslim brothers being trapped by “lady wolves”.  It’s sad that it’s happening so therefore it’s our duty to spread the awareness so that our fellow sisters/brothers can keep them safe from this “Fitnah” ! Insha-Allah!

Jazak-Allah khair to the one who wrote this reminder!

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