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Choices

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15 January 2010
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I believe that we are solely responsible for our choices, and we have to accept the consequences of every deed, word, and thought throughout our lifetime.
-Elizabeth Kubler

Now how do I say something on this one, this says it all so very clearly. But still I have my opinion on this. Choices we make in our life actually make our life the way it is. We learn from making bad choices, as when we see the result of our choice N don’t find it as expected or that pleasant, we then realize that ohhh that was a bad choice, but at that time we can’t do anything but to learn from it or worst:  regret for life.  When we make a choice we need to be aware of all its consequences, N now everything it brings along. If anyone choose to marry they have to know the responsibilities of being married all the ups N downs they need to work through it. If anyone choose to go study abroad they need to realize that they’ll miss the beautiful time with their family, if anyone choose  to betray N cheat their spouse they need to be sure N aware of the consequences of  losing the trust N wife forever, If one choose to lie about somethin they need I’m sure know N are aware of the disaster when the truth will hit them, but as said it’s all about choices one make. You choose what you want from your life, your life is nothing but a summary of your choices. So choose carefully, N accept the full responsibility of your any choice. As when things go wrong you have none to blame but yourself.

Taking charge of own actions

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9 October 2009
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I’ve seen it so many times that so many individuals would say somethin or do somethin N then try so hard to justify it or excuse it for that matter – Now what I don’t get is that if one really respect themselves N truly are true to their inner, then they should take charge of their actions – understand N realize the consequences – acceptin the damage done N not try to find the easy way out blaming on others who might have nothin to do with the situation.

As a dear one said that if anyone have the guts to do somethin, say somethin then have the guts to be honest about it N don’t fool people around  – because the only one they’re foolin is gonna be themselves. Unknowingly the way they behave they’re all in all actions gonna reveal the whole thing, N if someone don’t confront doesn’t necessarily mean they been fooled.

We aint saints in this world, the one difference between Farishte N us humans is also that we make mistake, learn from them N grow with life – but unfortunately some never learn I guess, that’s what Ive seen around that people would try to cover, excuse N color the truth with lies, manipulations, blackmailing, N do the actual thing so much worse just because they not willing to accept that yes they did somethin which they were not supposed to be doin – how sad is that? If only everyone could take charge for their actions N  reactions N realize that Jo Bhi Hai they MUST accept the consequences done by their actions or talks for that matter.

Double policy is somethin I’ve never kind of understood, I feel one should respect themself this much that they can face the truth N see themselves in the mirror N see a human being without seening a monster standing right infront whom they gradually even can’t  recognize.

Unfaithfulness

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3 September 2009
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What do people make this sin? Not being faithful – What is it that they think of when they betray their partner N when they cheat N lie about stuff. Do they completely forget that what goes around comes around. N how can they with those they cheat on their partner, don’t they have any kind of sense that the one who can betray once can betray again N next time it’s gona be them sufferin from their shameful act of unfaitfulness.

I often hear people ralk about how badly their spouse – girl/boyfriend hurt them by being unfaitful,I often see how people go through heartache because of this curse. N the way this thing is increasin day by day is just  awful. What is it that cause it, is what I think -

  • Lack of  communication
  • Lack of respect for their relationship
  • Lack of Love
  • Lack of interest
  • Lack of  good values
  • Lack of understanding
  • Lack of commitment
  • Lack of sincerity
  • Lack of quality time
  • Lack of curiousity
  • Lack of attention
  • Lack of attraction

Or simply lack of the thing needed to be faithful in the individual being unfaitful to their love one. I personally don’t belive in all these Excuses listed above, because I feel being unfaitful is 100% by choice N this thing is something that nobody force on anyone. Those individuals that are unfaithful in a relationship can actually never find the inner peace, no matter how hard they try their actions done  is gona keep them on distance from peace. If one got the guts enough to be unfaithful I feel they should have guts enough to tell their loved one (before playin around)  in whatsoever way they find less hurtin that they wish to separate paths N apologize for they shameful act sayin it’s not about them it’s about us. N Oh boi they are so damn right in that, because it’s definitely about them N their lack of ability to see how badly they gona regret in the future breakin someone’s dreams, killin their emotions N destroyin the heart that loved them into pieces. Being unfaithful is the worst way of disrespectin the relationship N all the lies N hidden acts that’s done only tells how low N weak the person is as an individual, by doin somthing like this to their loved one they only tellin that they give damn in all those moment spent together, they don’t care about relationship shared, how lil they respect themself N this is how they wish to be treated themself  as well hmm – patatic :-)

God mercy on every unfaithful partner, because they gona need it!

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