Posts Tagged Relationships

I sometimes wonder that when we say that if someone passes away or dies we will die. But in reality it doesn’t happen. I mean there are millions of such cases in front of our own eyes where we see people losing their loved ones and they would be like “I am going to die if something happens to you” etc..

But what happens?

They move on! They move on but one thing in our minds should be that no matter who we lose, the way we live our life will definitely be different. We will definitely be affected in a lot of various aspects.

For example when my Mum was ill I used to feel my life would end right there because without Mum I don’t want to be in this world. What happened? I am still alive, but then again that’s what God wants us to do. He knows that when we lose someone he also gives us the courage to cope their loss and live our life based on the lessons and things we learnt from those that are gone.

I miss mum every single second from the day she left this world to enter heaven, but I am sure she left knowing that those she left behind have the strength to move on.

How do you cope with a loss of your loved ones?

Sitting by the window N looking outside , thinking what a beautiful weather [Alhamdulillah] sunny N calm. Many thoughts are crossing my mind, like watching people running here N there, busy in the race of life makes me wonder how robotish we all are [included me]. I mean how unfortunate is it that we don’t take out time to stop N smell flowers, feel the fresh air, or just to look at the sky N smile. We don’t have time! Or maybe we feel that we will run out of time if we spend a sec on actually “feel” the life. Why is it so? our every breath is without the guarantee for the next one, still we act like living for eternity. But, I guess this is life, this is how it’s always been, A race.

Another though that’s hitting my innocent mind is how come people take their relations so much for granted. They keep doing things that they know can be cruel for their relationships they value so high, but still they risk to destroy them N they risk to make them unpleasant, are we humans so unaware of results N outcomes of our actions N choices, do we have different views on things that matters,  or is it so that all this is going towards one sayin: You never know how much something/someone means to you until you’ve lost them or messed it up totally! Sadly so. . .

Past! What actually is Past! something that is gone, dead, expired or something that is supposed to be dragging on throughout life? I personally feel one should remember their past, learn from it N at the same time move on, because if we keep looking back we will be unfair to our present, I don’t say our future because future is something that we have no clue about, but yes our choices of today will definitely affect our future N it’s destinations. Is it in human nature to keep looking back, while walking ahead? Or is it just the curiosity n need of “knowing everything” that makes one research for something that is over N out. Well, I don’t know the answer. . not yet! Do you?

Books! On my way back from city on train I was reading N I was thinking wow what a great company these books are, a real genuine friend :-) you feel like you got the whole universe along with you, reading a good N motivational positive book always leave you with so much pleasure N smiles, it lift your life N spirit up like anythin N it makes time fly. I just love reading N I have just discovered how much I love reading while travelling in train :-P it gives a feeling of being on a journey with a friend who says exactly what you wish/want to listen to hehe N yeah it’s a cool feeling (sometimes).

I have no idea why I started writing today but I just felt the “need” of  doing so, N I just started :-)  Blessings N smiles for readers, cya!

“The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships”
-Anthony Robbins

Very easy to understand this, isn it? That whatever quality your life has, that’s the quality you’ll see in your relationships. But lets say if we turn N twist  meaning of this saying a lil around, it become something like: You relations reflect the quality you’ve given to your life. The way you treat your relationship is exactly the way you treat your life, because ultimately what happens is that you through the way you respect N take relationships tells what qualities you’ve injected in your life N how your life actually is.