Posts Tagged respect

I’ve been thinking about this for some time now, but today I saw a video in my hubby’s cell phone, I now watched rest of the lecture on youtube for a while ago,  that gave me some more to think about as well as that scared me N made me ask Allah for forgiveness with tears in my eyes, as you never know what of your act makes you every good deed N ibadaat go nowhere but in trash, waste of life hmmmm. What have we women  gained N what have we lost in life – How bad luck, how Unfortunate, how very sad.

Not taking Allah’s order seriously is indeed the Ghaate ka sauda, N very soon we shall get the results, very very soon.  Today’s majority of women are  “in love” with men somehow, they all the time keep them in mind, listen to songs while closing eyes they think about them , leading a relationships without being married not to mention cheating on their spouse, Happy N content forgetting that the one they should fear, the one N only ALLAH  knows it all N is watching their every  act, the good ones N the shameful ones.  From a very young age unfortunately watching Dramas N movies makes innocent mind think that “Love”  N “Loving” [the kind of Love that is common these days] someone is must, which is NOT – it is Haram! but, the society around N wrong use of television/Internet makes naive brain think differently, who to blame? Maybe Parents? hmm

Though  Alhamdulillah there are women in this world that practise  Parda N are following Allah’s order, N maybe it’s because of those women, One cannot say that Muslim women are nowhere, they are dead, gone! But sadly, Looking around maybe we find 1 of billion  a Muslimah women, truly Muslim women with complete Parda, Parda the way it deserve to be!

Looking at Namehrum is eye Ka Zina , Talking to them is Zubaan Ka Zina, Listening to them is ears Ka Zina, Writing lovy dovy for Nemehrum is Hand ka Zina,  having their love in heart N dreaming of them, is heart ka Zina, Walking to see the somewhere is Kadam ka Zinda etc etc. Not only is this all be-pardagi, this is beghairti N a Momina women would not think of doing such things.

I sow these videos N not sharing them on my space I feel would be very unfair N not right, Following Allah’s N Hadees way is something every Muslim MUST do to protect oneself from  hellfire N Allah Ka Azaab. My duty is to share what I learned N know, rest is between Allah N the women out there! Allah the most merciful forgive us N give us the ability to follow his Order N give us Hidaiyat to be the real Momina, may we all follow Islam completely instead of picking up what suits us N what we like. [Ameen-sum-Ameen]

N nope, none of  this is extreme, not for a Muslimah, this is our beautiful Islam that gave respect to women!

There are lots of families where the eldest bro is usually taken into consideration whenever an issue comes up or whenever something is to be sorted out. Sadly that’s not the case in all families.

How do you see the situation when the eldest bro is not even given the position or respect as the eldest bro not only from a father who knows that after him only the eldest son will manage the whole family. And has anyone of you had that experience.. do share :)

When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts.  A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child.
-Sophia Loren

Nothing in the universe can be more stronger N sweetest than a relation between mother N her child :-) Who would be so genuine N real that they think of you when they are gonna make any decision for their own  life? none but a mother. A mother is a gift, a very pleasurable N special gift from above N those who really understand N realize how precious she is who recognize her worth, are the ones fortunate, because only then even when she’s no more her prayers her care her blessings  N her presence will always follow them N stick with them. Mothers deserve our all respect N time, in fact we have nothing that’s ours, it’s all hers. This quote says: A mother is never alone in her thoughts [why? because of the kids]. . hmmm well, her children owe her this much that she’s never alone in her life. God bless every mom in this world, as well God bless those who are resting in heaven.